Anal Sex for Women

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Years ago, Night-Thunder International held workshops on sexuality. One of these workshops was on anal sex for girls. Some past participants and others have asked that we again present clear knowledge on the practise, for enjoyment of anal sex. This is a short informational piece for the practise.

The human anus (from Latin anūs meaning "ring", "circle") is the external opening of the rectum. Similar to other animals, its closure is controlled by sphincter muscle. Feces are expelled from the physical body through the anus during the act of defecation, the primary function of the anus.

The little research that has been conducted suggests that about one-fourth of heterosexual-identified girls and guys have had anal sex, however that does not mean that one-fourth of heterosexual couples have anal sex regularly. The actuality of the research suggests that only about 10% of girls and guys have had anal intercourse in the past year.

There are, of course, many reasons why beings might want to engage in heterosexual anal sex. Some girls attempt anal sex for the reason that they want to experience intercourse, and yet they want to maintain what they consider to be their vaginal virginity.

Some girls and guys love anal sex. Others hate it. Others have not attempted it yet and are curious. And many being are attracted to it precisely for the reason that it is so taboo and mysterious.

For many girls and guys, anal sex is the ultimate taboo. Since the first case was identified in 1981, anal sex was given a horrific blow for the reason that human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), the virus that causes acquired immune deficiency syndrome or acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (AIDS), was identified as being most easily transmitted by engaging in anal intercourse.

Anal sex (also known of as anal intercourse) is the sex act in which the penis is inserted into the anus of a sexual partner. The term is capable of also including other sexual acts involving the anus, including pegging, analingus, fingering, and object insertion.

For the sake of information, the anus is exceptionally stretchable and capable of enduring even a large penis. For those who enjoy it, the arse is also capable of accommodating a fist, a highly skilful technique that for those that engage gives great pleasure.

Whereas anal sex is commonly associated in the Western world with male homosexuality, research shows that not all homosexual males engage in anal sex and that it is not uncommon in heterosexual relationships. Types of anal sex are also capable of being part of female homosexuality, also known of as lesbianism sexual practises.

Nerve bundles in the arse are equal to other sexual stimuli sensitive body parts. It is known that anal sex takes a great deal of condemnation from sexual taboos of modern society. Some misinformed beings hold anal sex as dirty and gruesome.

Conversely, anal sex is not every one’s cup of tea. Beings ought to recognise for themselves what gives them sexual pleasure. There are those who would enjoy licking and touching however will not endure the idea of penetrative anal sex.

However many beings seem to find anal sex quite pleasurable, and some may reach orgasm through stimulation of the prostate in males, and clitoral and G-Spot leg stimulation in girls. However, many beings find it painful as well, sometimes extremely so, which may be psychosomatic in some cases. The anal orgasm for girls is often spoken about however often misunderstood it is capable of being brought on by anal stimulation such as from anal sex, by insertion of a penis, finger or sex toy. Anecdotal evidence suggests that some girls experience anal orgasm as qualitatively different from clitoral or “vaginal” orgasm, though for many the distinction is less clear.

Also many girls have reported having orgasms during anal sex that were not vaginal or clitoral in nature.

What frequently occurs when most girls have anal sex for the first time? Usually both the guy and the girl have not ever engaged in anal sex before and do not know what they ought to be doing. What is the end result? No foreplay, no preparation, they simply go straight into it. Not surprisingly her physical body is not designed for that and the resulting pain is capable of getting so deeply entrenched that her brain makes a permanent psychological connection: anal sex equals pain.

To make sure that you are very aware, as with most forms of sexual interaction, individuals are at risk for contracting sexually transmitted dis-ease, and therefore what are considered to be safe-sex practises are recommend to participants.

Anal sex is capable of being risky. Even when beings use a plethora of lubrication during anal sex, there is a possibility of beings tearing the tissue inside the anus, which is not as well protected as the skin outside the anus. A humans external tissue is "kerotinized," meaning that it has layers of dead cells that create a thickened protective barrier. The tissue inside the anus does not have this feature. Without an abundance of lubrication, anal tissue is capable of tearing quite easily, creating openings where bacteria and viruses might be capable of entering and causing dis-ease problems, such as anal cancer or HIV/AIDS transmission.

  •  Preventing Pain and Damage to the Anus

     There are a number of measures you are capable of taking to help to prevent pain and prevent damage to anal  tissues. Specifically, these include:

  • A lubricant that last

Silicone sex lubes are considered a premier type of lubricant. Silicone lubes are super slick and are capable of being used for anal or vaginal sex and do not have be reapplied as often as a traditional lube. Silicone lubes are especially beneficial for anal sex for the reason that of their staying power. Silicone lubes are capable of being used with adult sex toys as well however are not capable of being used with other silicone based adult products as the silicone lubricant will cause the sex toy to melt. Easy to clean up, silicone sex lubes require simple soap and water or a trustworthy sex toy cleaner.

  • Use water-based lubricants. "It is important to understand that the anus does not have any natural lubrication, which increases the threat of pain or tearing. It is therefore necessary to use a lubricant to provide comfort, it is a fact that oil-based lubricants cause latex to weaken and petroleum lubricants dissolve latex. For that reason, you ought to use only water-based lubricants with latex condoms.

Four Different Types of Condoms

  • Latex: type of rubber; the most common condom style and great at preventing pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Dis-ease STDs.
  • Polyurethane: type of plastic; beneficial for those with latex allergies. Not as elastic as latex, so they may more easily slip off.
  • Lambskin: high-quality for preventing pregnancy however not Sexually Transmitted Dis-ease STDs - they have pores that allow bacteria and viruses to pass through.
  • Polyisoprene (SKYN): a non latex condom made from natural rubber. FDA approved for pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Dis-ease STD prevention, SKYN condom use is gaining popularity and getting rave reviews.

There are also special lubricants for anal sex which contain benzocaine, an agent that desensitizes the anus, relieves pain, and makes penetration more “comfortable." Benzocaine is often added to anal "relaxers." Benzocaine works by blocking nerve signals in your body. Your physical body requires the warning of pain to prevent further damage.

  • Go slow. It is especially important to take your time and begin slowly if it is your first time attempting anal sex. Without proper lubrication and slowly introducing the anus to the experience, anal sex may be painful. If you have not ever engaged in anal sex, it would be a beneficial idea to go step by step when exploring this area. There is a large number of nerve endings in the anus region that feel great when stimulated. You are capable of beginning by using your partner’s finger, engaging in this step a few times on different occasions before you continue exploring,
  • Pay attention to hygiene. Make sure that your partner has clean and cut fingernails before beginning to explore, in order to avoid scratching or passing bacteria. You are capable of then moving on to exploring with sex toys, or move on to protected anal sex with your partner.

 

Anal sex ought not to hurt

Again we will state, you require being very patience, also using a great deal of lubrication, and as much information as you are capable. Whoever gave beings the idea that they are supposed to work through the pain of anal penetration (or numb it), ought to be in detention for "endangering the well-being of the arse." You ought to develop realistic expectations though, especially if the girl or the guy has experienced an anal sex experience in the past that was awful.

Anal sex is capable of being safe; however you ought to go through precautions. Anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practise, and unprotected anal sex is the riskiest of all forms of sexual intercourse, due to the vulnerability of the rectum and sphincter tissues. It is also controversial in some religious traditions, often due to prohibitions against homosexual sex acts and/or to teachings about the procreation purpose of sexual intercourse. However, as attitudes toward sexuality have changed in recent years, many religious groups, especially in Euroamerican Judaism and Christianity, have become more accepting of non-procreative sex.

The anal tissue is actual different from vaginal tissue. For one, in most cases it is not capable of lubricating itself; moreover it is additionally prone to small abrasions and fissures.

“Butts cannot be forced, willed or guilt-tripped into complying.” She says that her husband can play with her butt whenever he wants, but he can't fuck it till IT wants. “It's his job to get my butt to want his dick. It's my job to relax and let him pleasure my ass till it's desperate for him.” -- Marie Louise Hartman

For most people, a lack of preparation is in all probability the single biggest turn-off about anal intercourse. A classic scenario would proceed similar in this fashion. The couple decide to attempt anal intercourse however are not actually completely prepared to engage in the act, he endeavours to push his penis into her anus without really any warning at all, she expels a scream in astonishment and torment and moves away as quickly as possible.

Three Stages of Anal Entry

Anal sex or anal entry has three stages of entry into the anus and rectum during anal sex. These are caused by the physical anatomy of a girl’s physical body, in particular the muscular structure of her anus, rectum, sphincters, and colon, and also by the nature of the sensations caused by the huge clusters of sensory nerves which surround the anus and rectum and abdomen.

We greatly suggest that for the first time engaging in anal sex with a girl, in which it is her first time also, or she is not really experienced in the act of anal sex that she controlls the experience.

Have the girl on top with the girl facing toward the guy. The reason that we suggest this is that if it is her first time engaging in anal sex or she really does not have a great amount of experience with being anally penetrated, this position will allow her to have controll of the insertion of the guy’s penis into her arse. In this position she will be capable of controlling how far the guy’s penis might go in to her and also she is completely capable of stopping the act if required without being required to struggle.

Again, we encourage her to use a great deal of lubricant on the guy’s penis and also to her own arse! The main reason that this will allow the guy’s penis to slide both in and out effortlessly. Next step is for her to take hold of the guy’s penis firmly in her hand and situation the head of the penis at the opening of her arse. Then choose to hold the penis in place while she gently pushes her arse down against the head of the penis. It ought to slide reasonably effortlessly for the initial part. At this point most likely she will encounter some resistance; this is where she will encounter the Sphincter ani externus (the muscular ring). To get past this point, she will in actuality be required to relax and push her physical body down gently until she experiences the head of the penis pop past the sphincter muscle. After she slides the head of the penis in this far she might choose to wait and experience what sensations she is experiencing thus far. At this point it would be a normal sensation for her to experience as if she were going to have a bowel movement. As we stated it is a normal sensation for her to have however she will not actually to have a bowel movement.

Once she has adjusted to a penis in her arse, she ought to attempt to press down further on his penis, taking more inside her arse. Note that the more sexually excited a girl is the less attention she will focus on any discomfort she might experience.

Now she will be capable to begin moving up and down on the guy’s penis, allowing it to slide in and out of her arse. At this point the girl is in complete controll and will be capable of wiggling from side to side, moving up and down as slowly or as fast as she would choose to proceed. From this position the girl is also capable of controlling the depth and force of penetration to be engaged in.

Anal Sex Positions and Techniques

Many girls are perceived to be scared and also curious about anal sex. They are also scared about comfort and safety issues. If you are curious, the following steps will make certain you have a safer and enjoyable experience.

  • First use a condom.
  • Do not ever go from arse to mouth, or arse to vagina, without washing carefully (and changing condoms) in between.
  • If the thought of some fecal matter is horribly repulsive to you, the receptive partner is capable of using an enema beforehand.
  • The arse has no natural lubrication; therefore you will require using a plethora of lubricant. More lubrication than you consider is necessary
  • Relax and go slow. Repeat. Relax and go slow. Encourage the receiving partner to take deep breaths and communicate her reactions aloud.
  • Begin with external stimulation from something small, similar to a small finger or a small vibrating toy.
  • Once the receiving partner has relaxed and begun to feel aroused, insert the finger or toy gently into the arse, allowing the anal sphincter to accommodate the object.
  • Gently move the object in a shallow circular motion. The two rims of the sphincter are rampant with nerve endings; subsequently this small motion ought to be experience in a pleasurable way. If it is not, we suggest that you discontinue or perform a different motion. Please realise that you may just be required to postpone your desires until another time.
  • When you are both ready to move on to something larger, consider first using a larger finger. Then you might choose to use a small dildo or vibrator. This will allow greater controll and may make things easier for the receiving partner.
  • Once you are both ready to introduce a penis or larger sex toy into the anus, slow down and proceed with extreme caution.
  • Please allow the receptive partner to set the depth and pace. We have found it to be wise to allow her to do the initial insertion.
  • Breathe and concentrate on relaxing the arse. Also remember to keep communicating with the receptive partner.
  • Do not neglect stimulation of other parts of the body. Clitoral or breast stimulation combined with anal play is capable of being relatively exciting.
  • Discontinue immediately if there is discomfort or if either partner declares he or she chooses to stop.
  • This ought to be an enjoyable experience. If it is not, stop, alto, arrête.

Other Positions
Here are some other positions that you may attempt to find out if you enjoy them.

Doggie Style:
This position that works so well for regular vaginal intercourse is also a beneficial choice for anal intercourse. The girl will kneel on her knees and elbows, remembering to relax her arse. Her partner kneels directly behind her arse, facing towards her. The guy will then bend forward guiding his penis to her arse opening and gently pushes it inside. Entry is made easier if the girl attempts to draw the guy’s penis into her arse as the guy is pushing. The guy is then capable of moving his penis around inside the girls arse by thrusting his hips forward and back, while the girl either remains still or also chooses to move her hips from side to side. This position allows for fairly easy and deep penetration.

Full Front:
In this position the girl lies on her back and pulls her knees up as close to her chest as she is capable of, then rests her feet on her partner’s shoulders. The guy pushes down on her face to face. If required a pillow is capable of being inserted under the girl’s pelvis to rise it higher up. The guy is also capable of pushing the girl’s feet up over her head. This position allows for easy and deep penetration.

Standing:
In this particular position both partners are standing facing in the same direction. The girl is capable of then bending over at the waist (to accomplish this it is an excellent idea to utilise a flat wall or something sturdy for support). This is also capable of being accomplished from a kneeling position at the edge of a couch or bed. Depending on the height difference between the girl and the guy some adjustments may be required to be made.

Prone Position:

In this position, the girl ought to lay flat on her stomach (use a pillow to raise the hips if necessary). This allows the girl to relax more fully and her hands are free to move wherever they like. Since the guy will lie on top of the girl he is also capable of also being more relaxed and have freer hand movements. The penetration in this position is not as easily accomplished and thrusting may be considered to be difficult. The girl will also be fairly restricted in her movement.

Side by Side – Chest to back:
From the side by side position, the partners are capable of fairly easily roll over onto their sides, both facing the same way, drawing one leg up. This position allows for greater relaxation of the bodies and hands are free to explore and caress. Entry is easy and penetration is fairly deep for this position. Movement is capable of being rather limited, even though vigorous thrusting is possible once you get used to the posture of the position.


Side by Side – Facing together:
This is another variation to the two previous positions. In this particular position, the girls and guys lie on their sides facing one another. The guy ought to extend his pelvis in between the girl’s bent legs. This position allows deep entry and the hands are free for exploration. This position is also a little more intimate and allows for kissing and eye contact to happen. Movement is fairly easy once insertion is made.

All information is intended for your general knowledge only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for specific medical conditions.

 


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#1 MasterJai 2013-05-05 20:33
I have found that women tend to open to this once turned on.. However, the male must exercise controll and not rush... If successful, my experiences have been that the woman can/will climax..especia lly if stimulating the clitoris simultaneously. .
 

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