Twin Flames

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Twin Flame
I seek myself perfected,
through the eyes of another.
Not already complete,
but in the potential of possibility
creating, thru the glory of lessons learned, experiences felt
and the promise fulfilled,
moving across the cosmos
unified as one

The Universe exists within its own laws and principles.  In the third dimension which these laws are capable of being defined by science, revered by religion, or remain an infinite enigma. One of the universal principles is the law of polarity.

Whether it be light or dark; positive or negative; yin or yang; masculine or feminine; male or female; proton or electron; heaven or earth; sun or moon; Alpha or Omega; god or goddess, the principle remains the same, a duality comprised of contrary force

The Twin Soul theory is not a new concept; it has existed for many centuries. Plato discussed twin souls in the Symposium, his philosophical writings on the nature of love, around 385 BCE.  Here is an excerpt:

" ... and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight even for a moment...

If Hephaestus, son of Zeus, were to ask the pair; 'do you desire to be wholly one, always day and night to be in one another's company? For if this is what you desire, I am ready to melt you into one and let you grow together, so that being two you shall become one, and after your death in the world beyond you will still be one departed soul instead of two, I ask whether this is what you lovingly desire?' — and there is not a man or woman of them who, when they heard the proposal, would not acknowledge that this melting into one another, this becoming one instead of two, was the very expression of their ancient need. And the reason is that human nature was original one and we were a whole, and the desire and pursuit of the whole is called love." 

Twin Flame Relationship

NASA Hubble Telescope Photo

What is a Twin Flame?

The information presented here is from the perspective of the writer’s reality and experiences, it is not intended to qualify nor disqualify the experiences or realities of others. A Twin Flame is an energy.  Similar to a lifestream (soul) however it is a whole being.  Twin flames both do come from the same Monad, as do lifestreams (souls) however Twin flames are whole and not fragments lifestreams (souls).

Many have declared that Twin flames, also mistakenly called Twin Souls, normally have incarnated together lifetime after lifetime to gather many experiences both in other realities and on the planet Terra or Urantia before coming back together. This reality absolutely does not make sense either. Twin Flames pick specific times in history to incarnate to gain specific experience, wisdom and talents for this very specific time in history. They also chose cultures, races, socio-economic placement, countries and families all to build their ‘Twin Flame resume’. Ideally, this happens in both of their last lifetimes on the planet Terra or Urantia; consequently as that they are capable of ascending from here together. Thus one would most likely not have experienced many lifetimes with one’s Twin Flame, if any.

There is a specific energy that flows between Twin Flames. It is extraordinary and rare. The frequency that travells between them is distinguishable by vibration, clarity and intensity. Twin Flame relationships are more unique than beings have been informed.

Beings that have taught knowledge of Twin Flames have declared that Twin Flames are two halves of one Lifestream (Soul).  This is not a clear truth.  A Twin Soul is not a Twin Flame. Each Twin Flame is in fact, a complete Lifestream (Soul), not half a Lifestream (Soul). It is their task to become more whole, balancing their feminine and masculine sides, and ideally becoming fully enlightened, before reuniting with their twin. This reunion is of two complete and whole beings. All other relationships through all their lifetimes are capable of being said to be "practise" for the twin, the ultimate relationship.

Many support the theory that all beings here have a Twin Flame. In actuality, Twin Flames are a small and distinct subset of all Lifestreams (Souls). Twins do not share a Lifestream (Soul), although rather their divine resonance is the same. Imagine identical human twins. Genetically identical, however they have individual life experiences, correct? Translate that to Lifestreams (Souls).  Not all Lifestreams (Souls) are created as Twins. Just as human twins are the same although different; it is this way with Twin Lifestreams (Souls).

The Pain of Ignorance

Many humans are in pain believing they have met their Twin Flame, they will perceive a challenging time coming to terms with the relationship or lack of relationship. In reality, they have met a Lifestream (Soul) mate or in some cases are attempting to wrap the label of " Lifestream (Soul) mate around a relationship that may not be anything more than a perceived dysfunctional human relationship.

No one really wants to be unhappy by choice. No one wants to be miserable, however some humans do not know how to break that cycle and instead choose perceived unhealthy relationships and attempt to 'explain them away' with a perceived “spiritual label”. They give credibility to their unhappy state by convincing themselves they are having a "spiritual" or a "Twin Flame" connection and therefore have no way out and are predestined to be miserable. These are fairly easy to identify for the reason that they commonly blame the other party and enjoy speaking about the mean & hateful things they say or text to their "connection". If you recognise yourself in that last sentence, we are capable of guaranteeing you 100% you are not in a Twin-Flame relationship.

There are others who are having an undeniable Lifestream (Soul) mate experiences with a high-level Lifestream (Soul) family member. In these cases many of the things they experience parallel a Twin Lifestream (Soul) connection, however are not.

There is not any perceived right or wrong here. There is not any perceived better and no worse. There is no more or less important, however there are differences. There would be much less hurt experienced if humans were more educated about exactly what a Twin-Flame relationship is, and is not. Those who fight and fight and question if they are having a Twin Soul experience might be relieved to know they are in all probability not.

Twins Flames incarnate for a unique and vital purpose. No being is forced to have a human experience. All beings all come to this planet to learn. Some come to teach. Many of us do both.

The concept of Twin Flames ought to not be romanticised, as the union exists mainly to attain servitude to the planetary, cosmic and universal consciousness. Human love that is apparent in the third dimension has traditionally focused on the attention and emotions towards another being and originates on a sexual or personality level; often demanding persistent compromises to make the partnership work.

Twin Flame unions are not romantic, and not all of them have agreed to live together as a couple! This is considered to be a deeply spiritual partnership that will deal with Junk on many levels way beyond a romantic concept! Many Christian and New Age believers have likened this to a union between the perceivably high energy of the Jesus the Christ and Mary Magdalene. If most beings were asked if they are anywhere near that level of evolution, or have the capacity and level of care to assists humanity, their answer would be no.  We understand that quite a few humans have the belief that they are Twin Flames, however, the level of significance and extraordinariness this type of a union really is is beyond most beings walking the planet Terra or Urantia today.

Each and every Lifestream (Soul) whether they have a Twin or not has a primary contractual agreement with the universe/god/goddess/source/great spirit. That contract is about fulfilling, to the utmost of their ability, their own souls' ultimate possible growth in a particular lifetime and ultimately what they plan to achieve by the time of their final incarnation.

The broad difference is that Non-Twins are not energetically linked to another specific Lifestream (Soul), whereas Twin Flames have an identical energy source or Lifestream (Soul). To be clear, they do not share a Lifestream (Soul), they are not two incomplete halves. They were created and birthed as Twins who respectively carry the same resonant energy source Lifestream (Soul).

The path of Twin Souls is a difficult one; however that is capable of being said for all Lifestreams (Souls).

First Are You a Twin Flame?

In the great search for one’s Twin Flame, many humans do not first ask themselves if they are a Twin Flame themselves?  A real Twin Flame connection is a very rare connection, and unlike many writings plastered on the internet and in books or YouTube, not everyone on has a Twin Flame! Twin Flames have a very special purpose, especially during this point in history. They also have special qualifications and characteristics that is frankly, a cut above the average human. It seems that many humans want to refer to themselves as being Twin flames for the reason that they believe being a Twin Flame is the Blue Riband of all relationships. This perception comes from many misguided, miseducated, hopeless romantics that feeds the masses a load of malarkey that has at minimum generated perplexity.  This has also lead to many deemed “broken hearts” and spiritual disillusionment. 

What is a Soul Mate?

Soul Mates are not Twin Flames, however considered as one’s Lifestream (Soul) family.  A Soul is created by a Monad, which comes from Source.  Each Monad produces a certain number of Souls.  Each Soul produces a certain number of lifestreams.  All the lifestreams collectively from all the Souls from the Monad are one’s Soul family. 

All These Lifestreams (Souls) are the ones that humans have many lifetimes and experiences with, who assist humans to grow and evolve, create and dissipate of the concept of “karma.”

Humans have secondary contracts with each other (Lifestream (Soul) family). Humans have other agreements in which they guarantee to learn (or teach) specific things to (or from) specific other Lifestreams (Souls). These are the elements of destiny, humans *will* meet each other, however it is up to the individuals to achieve, delay or avoid the contractual duties.

What Does Karma or Karman Really Mean?

Karma or Karman is an ancient concept, a Sanskrit word, which is an ancient Indic language that is the language of Hinduism and the Vedas and is the classical literary language of India, meaning 'act', 'action', or 'word'. What is perceived of as being the law of karma or karman is intended to teach humans that all of their thoughts, words and actions begin a chain of cause and effect, and that as a result; humans will personally experience the effects of everything humans cause. It is perceived that humans may not experience the effect (the returning karma) straight away, and it may not even be in this lifetime, however it is perceived that by some means one will experience it eventually you can count on it just the same. Karma is a cosmic law, Laws or principles that are universal in nature and application, which means that it applies to all humans, everywhere, all the time.

It may be perceived as being important for humans to remember that not everything that happens to humankind is caused by karma or karman. Lifestreams (soul) are choosing to set in motion new perceived negative karma all the time, by their free choice, and innocent humans are capable of becoming injured by these thoughts. In addition, some Lifestreams (Souls) choose to volunteer (in what has been perceived of as being the heaven-world, before they choose to be physically born on earth) to make sacrifices on behalf of loved ones. As humans, one may not ever know when someone's judged misfortune in life is actually a loving sacrifice. 

The Lifestream Mate “Soul Mate” Myth and Challenges in Lifestream Mate “Soul Mate” Marriages

There are several viewpoints as to how to describe lifestream mates “soul mates”, even on how to spell it! Some humans choose to spell the term as a whole word, soul mate and others, including the writers or this manuscript, prefer to keep it as two words, soul mate.

Soul Mate Descriptions

General Belief: Many humans believe that Lifestream (Soul) mates “soul mates” are capable of accepting and loving every part of the other's personality and that life with a lifestream mate “soul mate” is easy and natural.

The Writer’s Belief: We do not believe or accept that a Lifestreams (Souls) mate “soul mate” is the "ideal or one and only human" in someone's life. Our definition of Lifestream (Souls) mates is individuals who both want their marriage to be a great one.

Their marriage relationship may be experienced a being similar to what may be perceived of as being a natural fit. Although they, resembling all married couples, require putting a priority to their marriage, it is not difficult to do for the reason that they have a sense of being at ease and connected with one another.

Soul Mate Challenges

If one believes in the myth of only one Lifestream “soul mate” for each human, one may choose to assume that a partnership of two Lifestreams mates “soul mates” ought to be able to handle challenging times easily. That may not always be the case.

Just for the reason that humans are in sync to one another, each human is willing to take responsibility for their role in contributing to the conflict, and are both committed to making the marriage a successful one, one’s marriage is still capable of crumbling if other essentials such as love, respect, and communication are missing.

If one begins looking for perfection in one’s spouse, or believes that everything in one’s relationship ought to immediately click, and that there will not be any predicaments, one is setting themselves up for a dose of heavy disillusionment. Another danger in believing in the concept of lifestream mates “soul mates” is perceivably taking one’s marriage relationship for granted.

There is capable of being temptation to abandon an unhappy marriage if one perceives one’s spouse is not one’s lifestream mate “soul mate”. If one perceives that marriage to one’s lifestream mate “soul mate” will mean a life free from difficulty and conflict, one is not clearly facing reality.

If one perceives that one has not married one’s soul mate, it is wise not to choose to just walk away from the relationship for that reason alone. Spend some time getting to know one’s self somewhat more first. Remember this; one is not capable of finding one’s soul mate if one has not chosen to find one’s self first.

Introduction to the Twin Flame Relationship

You may have heard, “when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” On the same note, when your heart is ready, your Twin Flame will appear. Not for the reason that they have not been there, however for the reason that you have been unable to recognise them. We speak about how to recognise a Twin Flame Relationship, why it is significant at this time of human evolution and what it takes to manifest this level of relationship in the world. We discuss the challenges and the reasons why freedom is an essential base for this relationship in order for the higher purpose of both individuals and this union to become a physical reality.

Change in Perception

In the Western society there tends to be a romantic view of what a lifestream mate “soul mate” is. There are many lifestreams “souls” that humans have been with before that humans are capable of mating with however the Twin Flame Relationship is the next step, a match in purpose. Those few humans that have actually recognised their Twin Flame in this world usually have gone beyond a romanticised view of life and relationships. Many humans are capable of passing by their Twin Flame on the boulevard and not recognising them, for proper recognition comes from the lifestream’s “soul” and a knowing of purpose. This fails to be a knowing from intellect rather it is a knowing that comes from a deeper place within our heart’s flame. Romanticised love looks at the world from an outer personality perspective and operates more from a collective Idealised concept of love based on meeting each other’s requirements.

It is perceived that when one is connected to one’s purpose one is capable of recognising the purpose for relationship. This does not have anything to do with how a human behaves towards one. If one is truly concerned that much about how a human behaves towards them then the relationship is all about their own ideals or wishful thinking rather than a advanced purpose for the relationship that serves in the world.

Unconditional love comes from the lifesteam “soul” connection and is aware of not only the judged perceived positive however the judged perceived negative aspects of the relationship and is able to acquire the apparatus from Source in order to transform it to fulfill a higher purpose.

In a Twin Flame relationship, all one is capable of doing is to clear one’s own part in any perceived negative behaviour patterns and resonant energies within the relationship that may interfere with the growth of the relationship and the highest evolution of one’s Twin Flame. One is not responsible for anyone else’s spiritual growth. One is not allowed to do the spiritual work for one’s Twin Flame. One is only capable of engaging in the relationship at the level that it is occurring. As one chooses to clear any karmic ties that one choose to still hold on to, the history of discord in one’s Akashic Records is transmuted. (The Akashic Records are believed to be collections of every imprint that each thought, event, action, and deed has embedded through energy into the “akasha”, which translates to soniferous ether or aether in Sanskrit language.) This frees up the energy for the lifestream “soul” to create the space in the physical world that allows the relationship to be in present time aligned in service. This vibration goes out to one’s Twin Flame wherever they are on the Terra or Urantia and the Twin Flame is capable to proceeding in accordance with the intent of the Twin Soul Alliance.

Integration of the Twin Flame Relationship

The primary reason why very many relationships split up is for the reason that there is a lack of alignment with the lifestream “soul” and the higher purpose for the relationship. This means coming into balance with the masculine and feminine principles of life within one’s self. This is going to appear different for a human male than it does for a human female.

If a human male or a human female is still coming from his or her ego searching for that gratification, nurturance or protection from their partner then there exist the circumstances that there are in the world with human that change relationships similar to the way they change their knickers. When one or the other human is unable to fulfill the other’s requirements then the relationship ends.

In order to integrate the Twin Flame Relationship one is required to integrate and follow one's own lifestream “soul” and higher purpose in life. If either human lacks an alignment with their lifestream “soul” and higher purpose then the outer manifestation goes to a lower vibration creating enmeshed relationship.

When one has the balance of the feminine and masculine principles of life within them, one has an alignment with one’s lifestream “soul’s” purpose. This means one has one’s inner self in harmony with one’s outer self, one’s higher mind with one’s heart, and one creates a new world. 

Twin Flames

“And when one of them meets with his other half, the actual half of himself, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other’s sight even for a moment.”


 2,500 years ago.

Twin Flames - The Ultimate Relationship

Humans have many lifestream “soul” mates in life although only a small amount possesses a Twin Flame. For those that do, the twin has the same blueprint, with the same identity patterns, and with the same spark of life as you. One’s twin flame is perceived as being the highest path of initiation on the physical plane that one will experience.  It is the pure unconditional love of all humanity from whilst being came from.  It is the marriage to the lifestream “soul” of Source. Twin Flames experience their last lifetime here on earth together. Twin Flames love mutually, unconditionally and without limits.  Twin Flames have no doubt of whom they are and that they are meant to be together. Twin Flames are the ultimate power couple and are powerful. The energy between Twin Flames is so intense that it is doubtful that both will not experience it. The attraction between them is very strong to deny and keeps them both coming back together. Their time apart is not ever excessively long and they are not ever extremely far away. Twin Flames share most of each other’s strengths and weaknesses, however may experience them differently. Twin Flames are not karmic lifestream mates “soul mates”.  Lifestream mates “soul mates” are plentiful. A Twin Flame is only one. That means that there is only capable of being only be one.  For the most part there is not any such thing as ‘twin energy’ going from one physical body to another without “special” authorisation, as a rule, a Twin Flames’ physical body is already chosen and as it appears above it will be below.  Both individuals will experience the call, pull, heat, energy, attraction, intensity and love for one another.

Twin Flames experience a different level of connection/bonding and love which is capable of being very intense and magical. Twin Flames are already paired above and it is the goal to make it so below. There is not a capability of a being having two Twin Flames.   Being two twin flames per one person, there is only one.  When Twin Flames are meant to be together they will be together at the same time on the same plane.

A Twin Flames is the last mate’ one will ever have on Terra or Urantia, meaning this is your last lifetime here on Terra or Urantia, meaning all your lessons and karmic relationships are up (or are required to be taken care of ASAP) and it is now time to move to a higher level of existence.

Twin Flames experience life quite differently than most other beings. And are very much more than what humans believe a Twin Flame to be. The term Twin Flame that is being used now does not do the actual meaning of who Twin Flames are  justice, which may be for the reason that that is not what Twin Flames are truly called.

Many are using their own definitions to keep from accepting the fact that: :

A. They do not have a Twin Flame, at least that exist on this earth at this time, or

B. The human they thought was their Twin Flame is not.

Twin Flame unions are those created by Universe at a time when there are not anymore lessons to be learned for those individuals. This means that for everything they have done on this planet they are capable of now relaxing and having whatever they so desire. Again, this means that they are of a higher spirituality than most and have not only been gifted great knowledge, however are capable of now living free from restraint in all areas of life.

Twin Flames are awakened for the purpose of helping hundreds, thousands, millions possibly billions find their way in this world and have knowledge in all areas of life for the reason that of the many lifetimes they have lived.

This is the truest form of love that will ever be. There is not one person in this world who will be able to take the place of a Twin Flame.  Twin Flames are to be together-if on this earth-and great lengths will be taken with the help of Universe to see that happen.  Twin Flames are rare and can only be accessed by those who are on the spiritual level required for this type of love.

The Twin Flame Heart

When one comes together with one’s Twin Flame, even in consciousness before meeting in the physical, one begins to creating a shared “Soul Mate” heart.

This Twin Flame heart is a powerful tool for bringing the world back to pure love. Anything or anyone placed in the Twin Flame heart is brought right to Source, and thus returned to pure love.

Twin Flames commit to coming together in consciousness to build this Twin Flame heart together, before coming together in the physical.

This creates a firm foundation of pure love for the relationship on the spiritual level.

Why is it Very Important to Build the Twin Flame Relationship in Consciousness?

Why is it so important to build the Twin Flame relationship in consciousness?

Twin Flames embody the energies of Creation, Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine. When Twin Flames connect and their hearts are open they are capable of delivering the Creator’s love back to what has been created.

Most relationships on Terra or Urantia are ego based relationships based on old relating patterns, fears and superficial judgements. Human love is a conditional love

The ego always creates separation and represents what one is healing here on Terra. or Urantia

The ego keeps one turned away from unconditional love or being truly in one’s heart.

Coming together in consciousness builds a foundation in unconditional love and a real heart relationship, before coming together physically it is capable of bring up any possibilities of superficial judgements

Twin Flames, the Encounter and its True Purpose

Beings would not be Twins Flames incarnated together if it was not divinely significant. There is not any such thing as "uniting your inner Twin Flame". It is further accurate to declare that each Twin Flame independent of each other is required to discover and master (or nearly master) specific skills that Twin Flames were sent here to learn first and teach second. This referred to a subset of Lifestreams (Souls) earlier. Similar to some instructors teach math, some science and others art, not all Lifestreams (Souls) come to teach the same things. Of course there is perceived overlap and all Lifestreams (Soul) are here to learn about kindness, unconditional love, compassion, empathy, etc.

Twin Flames have contracted to have a particular Lifestream (Soul) curriculum that teaches them exactly what they require to know to (1) reunite with their Twin Flame and (2) to elevate and educate any Lifestreams (Souls) willing to listen to the message that only Twin Flames carry.

Beings are not capable of teaching something that they do not know themselves. Twins Flames are first required to learn. Most Twins Flames choose to learn by remembering and experiencing. When a being believes that they are fairly smart they are forced to learn more. Their Twin forces them. They do this for their Twin also. When Twins are prepared sufficiently, they join together in a way that is agreeable to both. Their individual energies, talents, knowledge and abilities morph.

Twin Flames have reincarnated with a very challenging task on hand which is to find balance, to find wholeness and completion without their true half. They are here to create a third energy, the energy of unconditional love. Normal human (conditional) love does not fulfill as they know and understand love differently.

Some Twin Flames do not even reincarnate together, sometimes one Twin Flame has already ascended from earth plane while one Twin Flame remains on earth to fulfill their mission. However if both Twin Flames have reincarnated on Terra or Urantia , destiny does bring them together for the initial recognition and the separation follows as it is only through separation they will be forced to look deep within to heal on all levels and to achieve completion on their own. Similar to how they were destined to.

The bond between the Twin Flames does not require time or experiences; it does not even require a relationship. It just exists and will exist no matter what. Attempting to fight it or deny it will just cause one more pain and confusion. It will hold no comparison to one’s deemed normal human relationship as this relationship exists between the complimentary energies and holds a deeper purpose.

The purpose of a human relationship is to give and receive human love and to add to evolution by creating life. It is also for survival of the species and to form community and society. The purpose of the Twin flame relationship is however to bring forward divine unconditional love energy for humanity, and to be of service in ascending the world to higher way of loving. To bring love back to its true form, which is unconditional as humans are capable of beginning to live in true love as they come know it and not in fear it?  Twin Flames choose to go through this pain to allow humans to stop experiencing conditional love and hate and begin experiencing unconditional love and more unconditional love. This longing is seeking merger of the two complimentary energies.

The twin with the feminine energy is similar to a flowing stream that takes over every form and looses itself in giving, The twin experiences being alone and the twin does not know how to differentiate for the reason that the twin or be an individual. The twin’s challenge will be to find balance with the masculine energy as that the twin is capable of giving and love without losing the twin. The twin requires mastering becoming an individual. On the other hand the twin with the masculine energy which is strong, individualised and aggressive will require finding balance with the feminine energy as that it is capable of experiencing and giving selflessly a well. The twin will be required to master giving and loving selflessly.

This longing disappears only when these two energies are balanced within each twin. The twins than become their whole selves, the requirement to complete each other is over.

They become two strong, whole and complete individuals ready to emanate unconditional love. The third energy has been created. The mission completed. They have found themselves.

It is similar to ascending without physically dying. Similar to each of them physically being born again however this time evolved at a greater level. With great wisdom and great strength. They possess the power to lead and the power to heal.

As stated before, it is quite possible that a human's Twin Flame has ascended, and in some cases that Twin Flame might have ascended centuries ago. In a clear fact, many of the humans who are consciously on the spiritual path, and who are making great efforts to raise their consciousness, are doing accordingly precisely for the reason that their Twin Flames are already ascended. The ascended Twin Flame utilises a magnetic pull on the Twin Flame still on Terra. Other times the Twin Flame that has ascended will choose to return to be with their Twin Flame.  For a Twin Flame that has ascended and chooses to return for the Twin Flame that has not, a special dispensation is required for this to occur.

Manifesting Twin Flame Relationship

The twin flame relationship is an entity unto itself that creates an alignment of mind, body, feelings and lifesteam “soul” when one seeks to marry one’s Spiritual Light body with one’s physical body. One has a physical manifestation when desired by those higher aspects of one’s self in accordance with a divine plan that serves the greater whole of humanity and earth.

In order to manifest this level of relationship one is required to become it. Becoming it means allowing for new information to come through from higher dimensions of self becoming clear channels of the Light of Oneness. As one brings the twin flame relationship into practise in one’s world one also brings the expansiveness of one’s heart flame into a marriage with one’s higher mind.

However, lifestream mate soul mate relationships ought to not ever be dismissed.  From all of the pain, the pleasure and challenge emerges one’s greatest opportunity for growth and spiritual development.  In learning the lessons from one’s lifestream mate soul mate relationship one is capable of beginning the process of moving on and healing; clearing away those blockages that previously prevented one from giving and receiving love unconditionally.  It is only when one is capable of doing this that one will be ready to open ones heart to the prospect of meeting one’s true love.  That human who brings out the finest in one; loves, supports and challenges one in a way that enables one to be the greatest possible version of one’s self.  This human is most commonly referred to as one’s Twin Flame.

Again, as the name suggests one’s Twin Flame is, indeed one’s twin.  Together both are required to balance; both hopefully compliment the strength and weaknesses of one another, coming together for a greater purpose whilst forming a strong partnership.  This relationship is all about balance, love and harmony something that is not capable of being achieved when one, or both partners are still holding on those shadow aspects of themselves.  Those shadow aspects being fear, perceived negative thoughts and dense emotions. Your twin flame will enter your life when one is at a place where one no longer experiences the requirement to dominate one’s lover or relationship, no longer is in fear of rejection or when one no longer carries the expectation that every romantic partner is going to betray.  When one has chosen to let go of the conditional love issues, patterns and behaviours from the past one frees oneself up to experience the unconditional love of a lifetime that is correct for one.

Free Choice in Twin Flame Relationships

For the reason of the misuse of it, free will was removed from humankind and replaced with free choice. Free will implies being able to do anything at any given moment, whilst free choice is an option of possibilities. When it comes to free will and one’s Twin Flame relationship, one is required to be willing to be accountable and responsible for how things unfold between them. 

Twin Flames Do Not Routinely Incarnate Together

Twin Flames do not normally incarnate together, except for a perceivably higher purpose. At this time, many evolved Twin Flames are incarnating to assist in the raising of consciousness of humanity. Usually when one Flame incarnates the other is out of form, preferring to energetically support their incarnating twin.

When Twin Flames do incarnate together the coming together is often chaotic and stressful, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Their relationship is very intense. The romantic loving version host humans perceive of is really for Twin Souls. Twin Flames come together as two mirrors. They are there to reflect back each other's perceived imperfections, for the ultimate goal of the Twin Flames is a complete union once more. To achieve this, complete balance is required by both of them on all levels. It is found that those areas, in which they both have harmony, are the areas they no longer require to work on.

Twin Flames also have many differences; these may be age, sex (same sex is possible), geographic locations, morals, beliefs, race, income brackets. They incarnate specifically to be the facilitator of the others growth and ascension. And yet the bond is such that being together is similar to coming home. The attraction is strong on every level, and spiritually they know they are one. This knowingness assist s them over many of the hurdles, mostly created by pre-conditioning, beliefs and personality.

As the Twin Flames become more into balance and their service here on the planet becomes more into their awareness they spiritually grow at a faster rate than when they were apart. They find their spiritual gifts are fine tuned. Each often possessing a gift the other does not. They are sensitive to each other's energy flows and stresses. Being apart is similar to functioning at a reduced level. Together, they become balanced and more of who they are, just by being in each other's energy.

When Twin Flames reunite in physical form an awakening occurs of a very special type, an awakening that is only capable of occurring when Twin Flames energetically connect in the 3rd dimension. The flame of the alpha twin and the flame of the omega twin are ignited. Until this re-union, the flame has laid dormant. From this ignition comes a coil of gold light up their spine, some may call it a serpent other kundalini. In reality it is the awakening of the oneness they once shared.  As they grow closer in their connection on all levels these coils entwine to form a caduceus,

When Twin Flames Do Come Together

The concept of soul mates, has to do with "one" that was divided and comes back together. Twin flames are two "complete (not ever divided), individual entities" that come together to create a new, "third" entity. A Twin Flame is a rare being. It does take two "halves "to create the whole of the third entity, yet in the case of twin flames, each half is a whole, as opposed to soul mates where each half is incomplete without the other and they come together to reunite as one.

The Twin Flame combination transcends all definitions of masculine/feminine, male/female relationships on this planet. Third dimensional love has traditionally focused human's attention and feelings/emotions on another human and originates on a sexual or personality level, often demanding continual compromise to make the partnership work. Do not romanticize or idealize the concept of a Twin Flame. Do not expect intimate candlelight dinners, boxes of chocolates or bouquets of roses expressed. These things are not its purpose. It exists to reach completion in order to be of service: planetary, cosmic and universal. Absolute service to the Divine Plan becomes the only reality of the Twin Flame. The Twin Flame union becomes a continual unified field automatically accessing higher frequencies and since it acts as a bridge to the higher dimensional frequencies of oneness, it will function as a single consciousness. It will not be dependent on the talents or vocations of one partner or the other. It is the unit that is commissioned for service, not the individual expressions of the unit.

As they come more into balance with each other the caduceus coils meld more and more into one another until there is no visible differentiation between them. They have transmuted all the imbalances that kept them apart, and have stepped onto the path of the Alpha and Omega, the journey home as a two parts of the one whole reunited in service.

Common Kundalini Awakening Symptoms:

  • Tingling in the physical body and brain region. Also sometimes described as ants walking, tickling energy or flushes of energy. The brain being flushed with energy is quite pleasant :-).
  • Heat or cold in the system, or running along various channels and chakra centers.
  • Fluttering or twitching of muscles.
  • Pinching or burning in various regions of the physical body or brain.

Uncommon Kundalini Awakening Symptoms:

  • Pressure in the Third Eye Region (Ajna Chakra). This is pressure, tingling or other sensation in the centre of the forehead. Is capable of going on for Sudden bursts of energy anywhere in the body. These are almost always short lived, from a few seconds to a few minutes.
  • Kundalini Shakti rising up and elongating the spine.
  • Incredible sensation of unconditional love and desire for your twin (not ordinary lust, alcohol induced or otherwise). Usually comes upon one spontaneously, deep in the night.
  • Unfortunately, pain in the lower back, back of the neck and headaches.

Rare Kundalini Awakening Symptoms:

  • Experience of divine light within. Very intense light, usually pure white and incredibly beautiful.
  • Tremendous vibratory energy
  • .Very blissful however is capable of intensifying to the point where it would completely overwhelm your consciousness if one allows it.
  • Spontaneous bliss, intensely pleasurable.
  • Complete paralysis of the physical body. Complete immobility and rigidity takes place. As with the all consuming vibratory energy, it requires some courage to allow.
  • This one is exceedingly rare. The arms and legs churn similar that of a human infant. It occurs naturally and is not capable of being simulated. As that it is intensely pleasurable and quite a perceived remarkable experience.

There are three major types of marriages in a Third Dimensional world

Once beings make the choice to marry someone their work begins. One ought to give each relationship the finest that they are capable of, no matter who they are or what the relationship entails.

Karmic Marriages

There are three major types of marriages, whether it is one’s free choice or no choice as in arranged marriages. The first type is the karmic relationship. Many marriages in the world are solely karmic. Karmic relationships are always intense in their beginnings and one may experience a strong requirement to be with that human overriding all other requirements. It is the falling in love period, where one may seem to live only to be with that other human.

Romantic love is a primitive response.

Experts have declared that romantic love is one of the most powerful reactions a human may experience. The human brain produces high levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine

However then the day comes when the "honeymoon" is over, and the real work begins. Some have even exclaimed that after the marriage begins, even within days, they experience a sudden eye-opening vision of this spouse as someone with whom they do not want to be married to, or remember some bad experience or sensation about them. While in the "falling in love" stage and the "honeymoon" stage, any perceived negative karma is shielded and overridden with each other through the intercession of divine love.

One is shielded from seeing the negative karma together with another, two people are brought together for the replaying of their karma so that this time they will choose to forgive and love regardless of the other's imperfections.

Falling instantly and madly in love is not an indication that there is going to be a perfect marriage. You may meet someone and that impact will be stunning similar to the impact of planetary bodies. What is actually occurring in many cases is that one is subsequently excited that one has met the lifestream (soul) that one is capable of balancing this section of what one perceives as being karma with that the lifestream (soul) rejoices that one has met this one in embodiment in this lifetime. There is this sensation of euphoria and great joy. Nonetheless it is not necessarily for the joy for being with the other human, however the joy of the lifestream (soul) who knows that if one does not get that karma balanced one is not capable of entering into world service and ultimately a possible reunion, if one has one, with their Twin Flame.

Balancing perceived karma that daily comes to one’s access way, and the perceived karma that has a requirement for resolution now, is the ultimate purpose. One may have one of those very intense impacts with another where there is not anyone that one would rather be with, not anything that one would rather do than marry this other human. The faster one submits to the law of one’s own perceived karma the faster one will be liberated, however one is required to surrender and work to make these marriages work while one chooses to be together with this human.

Thus the true inner meaning of the ritual of marriage is to bear one another's perceived karma and to assistance each other balance their masculine and feminine energies. Therefore the official vows by a priest spiritual minister or rabbi is the vow to the spouse "to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part". Even if one is living with another they will not share their perceived karmic debt.

Lifestream Mate “Soul Mate Marriages
The second most common type of marriage is with the lifestream mate “soul mate. This is a human with whom one has had past incarnations, often many, where one has worked together to assist one another to balance the perceived positive/negative polarities in manifesting some project or goal. Many times this relationship and marriage is not antagonistic, although issues will come up as in any type of relationship. Lifestream mate “soul mate marriages are often joyful and help not only each other, however the perceived positive growth of humankind. As long as the both humans practise forgiveness, loving themselves, as well as each other, this type of marriage will be very rewarding in what they are capable of bringing forth together. It may be some outer project with others such as maintaining a business together or creating or supporting one another to bring forth a book or new technology, or it is capable of being raising a family and bringing souls into the world who will also contribute some gift to humankind.

Twin Flame Marriages
The third type of marriage is with the Twin Flame. These marriages are scarce on the earth for the reason that perceived karma separates twin flames, even if that karma is not made directly with that Twin Flame. For the reason that Twin Flames may develop over lifetimes with little or no contact, they may develop separate personality types that further separate their oneness. Any perceived negative karma between them will be required to be balanced first before they are capable of moving into world service together and the highest service of unconditional love that is capable of being given while in embodiment.

Twin Flames create perceived karma with one another in many ways, such as raising their children and the non-caring for them, or for one's family, or not supporting one another in temptations and trials

Sometimes Twin Flames are put together in other relationships first, such as father/daughter, sister/brother or coworkers, in order to assist them to develop a closer relationship while not having the responsibility of bearing that Alpha-Omega polarity with one another through a marriage. 

Being a Twin Flame is Not for the Faint of Heart.

When Twin Flames come together, they often encounter enormous challenges. Though compatible in every regard, they will find themselves in drastically different circumstances. Their ages may be 30 years apart or they may come from incompatible cultures or religions. This is for the reason that Twin Flames are here to create a new template for all relationships on planet Earth. They unite to tear down the old societal conventions, traditions and belief systems in order to restore the planet to a state of harmony, balance, and unconditional love.

False Twin Flame Relationship Signs

The false Twin Flame relationships will manifest itself in very similar qualities of the Twin Flame connection. Why is this? The false energy has not yet mastered within themselves the higher levels of consciousness and self reflection that a true twin has. thus instead of doing the difficult perceived emotional inner work, the false twin will attach themselves to the more evolved twin and absorb their energy and essence as their own. Whether done on a subconscious level or not, this type of energy exchange is very dangerous for the true twin.

The false twin will mirror qualities of a true twin in order to gain the level of controll required to maintain the connection. Distance is the key to this type of manipulation. Whether geographically or emotionally, this type of energy is not capable of being maintained in what is perceived of as being the light. (i.e., up close and personal) thus it will create distractions and diversions until the time comes to feed. Yes, you read clearly, feed. Feed off the true twin. This would be similar to refueling one’s car at a petrol station. However in this case, the false twin is siphoning one’s fuel (energy), not adding.  Once the false twin experiences that they have gotten what they required from the true twin, they soon have little or no time for them. They will become irritated quickly and visibly withdrawn. They are not capable of continuing the flow of exchange for the reason that the energy they claim as their own is borrowed from others, from the true twin.

In the development one does not know which way to go. One’s heart may tell them that this human is different, and there were very many signs informing one that they were “the one” Both shared similar childhoods, interests, goals, dreams. No one understands you the way they did.

The next stage is you begin to blame yourself for the relationship going south. One may apologise often and always play the role of peacemaker. The false twin does not want to make peace however.

False twins operate in the shadows. One’s unawareness of this fact keeps one in the cycle of their purpose. One engages in their drama and believes that it is love that is the motivating factor.

If a false twin is extremely disconnected from their own lifesteam “soul” then they are capable of becoming quite violent psychically and energetically. They may spiritually attempt to destroy what the true twin has worked diligently to heal while at the same time wearing a mask of perceived light in the outer world. The false twin will be mostly undetected until they come across someone with knowledge of their game plan or someone who is highly sensitive to energies.

False Twins are capable of strengthening themselves energetically at the expense of a true twin’s life. This might manifest outwardly as illness, job loss, depression, even death. Please choose to be informed about false twins as well as real twin flame connections.

Here Are Some Signs One May Know a False Twin By (or energy stealer):

  • you obsess/daydream about them
  • overpowering sexual energy exchange
  • experience anxious or nervous speaking to them on phone, by email, or in person
  • they come into your dreams often (usually comes with messages to pay attention to)
  • they create distance between you by not ever being fully available or responsible for actions
  • controlling and manipulation tactics
  • will not open up however will draw information out of you
  • they get angry when you pull away or have a sense of your own power
  • they tend to disappear or show no real excitement when you achieve success
  • intense jealousy and or will try to make you jealous by talking of other relationships they have had
  • confusion. unable to make clear choices or decisions all of the sudden
  • unexplained series of bad luck
  • other areas of your life not flowing as well as before they came into your life
  • feeling disoriented, emotionally drained, tired, or worried for no reason when you are in their company or think of them
  • they will cuddle you to sleep then distance themselves. this is when the feeding occurs. a true twin does not require this physical closeness as the only way to connect
  • they are not capable of looking you in the eyes for extended time or will give a look of suspicion
  • they manipulate your time by being late, cancelling plans at last moment, saying they will call and do not, etc., this is done to get your reaction! your energy…
  • they blame you for their behaviour or bring up something in the past you may have done to use as leverage
  • they rarely apologise or give clear definite responses to your questions and concerns
  • they will show up again the moment you let them go 

How Will One know One has Met Their Twin Flame?

Here are some of the symptoms given by others who have had the experience…

01. Chances are you have met through a set of unusual circumstances that were absolutely unplanned and unexpected.

02. There is a powerful, instantaneous sensation that you have known the other before.

03. You felt an immediate and deep connection for one another.

04. There is an electrifying sensation between the two of you that words are not capable of describing.

05. The relationship is immediate, as though no time had been lost since you were last together.

06. It feels as though you had not ever really lived before the reunion occurred.

07. You experience a deep sense of sacredness and unity that you have not ever known before.

08. It brings on sensations you not ever thought were possible.

09. The two of you are inseparable.

10. When you look into each other’s eyes, time and space have no meaning.

11. There are no barriers between the two of you. The relationship is a totally open one.

12. Your conversations seem to go on forever.

13. You give to the other and do not ever think of receiving in return.

14. There is a special sacredness to your relationship that transcends anything you have ever experienced before.

15. Neither one of you are dependent on the other for your sense of self.

15. There is a strong sense of unlimitedness eternity to your feelings.

17. Your feelings for each other are very spiritual.

18. There are no restrictions within the relationship. All is freedom without the requirement for ownership or controll.

19. The two of you know without doubt that you have been brought together for a reason.

20. You do not compete with one another nor do you pretend to be other than who you are.

21. In spite of your sameness, there is no doubt you experience a sense of completion through the other.

22. Trust, patience and acceptance of each other’s weaknesses happen automatically.

23. There is a great sense of purpose and meaning to the relationship.

24. Your sexuality with one another is a sacred act that celebrates the unconditional love you have for one another.

25. The two of you become more and more one, without losing your individual identities.

26. When you look into the other’s eyes, you see yourself.

27. You experience a sense of completeness that is without comparison.

28. The degree of intimacy and friendship the two of you develop is without parallel.

29. You recognise that the two of you are Twin Flames.

4 Steps to a Twin Flame Relationship

True Love is hard to find. It is a clear fact, that it is not capable of being found. A relationship with one's Twin Flame is capable of only be magnetised.  There are four things one is capable of doing to accomplish this. A Twin Flame relationship comes after one has been through two other types of relationships. The first is one of self discovery in which one views one’s basic self in relationship.  The second is a psycho drama. If one has already gone through those, one is ready to open one’s self to a Twin Flame relationship. Twin Flame relationships are not available to all. In some lifetimes, beings have other things to do!  If one does not want a Twin Flame this time around, it is still very likely that one is still capable create a romantic life partnership. The following five steps will magnetise one’s Twin Flame or one’s Life Partner towards us.

1. Complete relationships of the past

If one does not choose to complete the past, one will repeat it. Twin Flame and Life Partnership relationships are not about the same lessons other relationships are meant to teach. If one has completed those lessons, one will be capable to look at one’s former romantic partners with a smile. There will not be any perceived negative deemed emotion left.  A trick to accomplish this is to write the forgiveness 7 x 7 x 7 times. This equals 343 times. For example one will want to write “I forgive Who-ever for What-ever wrong one perceived as the downfall of the relationship.”  Then one will be required to do the same for whatever perceived wrong one perceived that one is responsible for. Even if the only perceived wrong one believes was one choosing to be a doormat, or choosing to be a victim. Then for most humans, they would be required to forgive their god.  Much recognition has been given to the Judeo Christian heritage of Western society. Somewhere in the human consciousness, either primary consciousness, or the human subconscious, humans have chosen to attribute a great deal of their experience as a manifestation to their relationship with their “god.”

2. Love yourself

Humans as a whole do not love themselves.  If one does not choose to love one’s self, no one else will. It is capable of being perceived as difficult to determine if one has attained a state of consciousness that includes loving one’s self in this human exploration. How does one really know if one is there yet? One truth is that a lifestream’s life is a manifestation of human consciousness. Does one choose to encounter loving exchanges with others? When one looks in the mirror does one appreciate what one sees? Does one choose to treat and speak of one’s self with love? 

There are two tools which will assist in causing love of one’s self to become a reality. The first is the use of an affirmation, “I love myself and treat myself with love.” One ought to allow this affirmation to become one’s self mantra within one’s own mind. One ought to repeat this mantra over and over again as one goes through one’s daily routines.

The second tool is to write this affirmation down on a post it note and place it on one’s bathroom mirror just out of direct sight. One ought to mind one’s thoughts and behaviour change, perhaps slowly, over time. These tools will lead to the place in consciousness where love of one’s self is a reality.

3. Clear the space

If someone else is in one’s bed, there is not any room for one’s Twin Flame. On a more subtle level, clearing the relationship corner of one’s home is essential. The relationship corner is the back left hand corner of your home, relative to the main entrance.  Make sure that this area is clean and organised. Once it is physically clean, use a white sage or cedar smudge stick to clear the spiritual energy.

4. Rewrite your subconscious

If one’s subconscious is still filled with the belief that one does not deserve of real love, or incapable of receiving real love, one is not ready. There is a process one is capable of using to construct. Write the following statement five this to occur times every morning, five times every afternoon, and five times every evening, for three weeks; “I now know, that I am ready to receive, in the physical universe, a loving, romantic partnership.”  If one chooses to stop writing during the three weeks, if the process is interrupted, whatever issue caused the interruption is the issue that is between a being and their readiness to magnetise their Twin Flame. If this occurs, begin the process all over again. At the end of three weeks, one of two things will occur. One will either connect with the being and the relationship one seeks, or the Universe will step in and show one exactly what is in the way.  If one does not manifest a relationship, one is capable of addressing the issue that is in the way and repeat the process

Mark 10:7-9 declares, “A man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” A husband and wife are “united,” “one flesh,” “no longer two, but one,” and “joined together,” i.e., soul mates.

Stages of a Twin Flame relationship

Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening

Runner Dynamic

Stage 1:  Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening

Characteristics of Stage 1:
Both Twins recognise one another at the lifestream/soul level and the perceive as if they have met before. 

Synchronious events surround the union.  The heart chakras open and both lifestreams/souls quickly merge into a third unified energy.  Both Twins experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding.

The purpose of the Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening Stage:
To activate the memory of each soul’s life mission and to help awaken each Twin to higher levels of consciousness

Stage 2:  Testing

Characteristics of Stage 2:
The initial temporary spiritual awakening (illumination) fades. The human ego (“little self”) begins to re-emerge.  One or both Twins may attempt to fit the relationship into the “old modell” of Love, couplehood and relationship as it relates to their human ego desires and learned belief system.  Inner conflict arises.

Twins ruminate on what they were taught to believe their beloved “ought to be” and how relationships are supposed to serve them.

The purpose of the Testing stage:
To cause outdated mental concepts about relationships to rise to the surface to be cleared.

Stage 3:  Crisis

Characteristics of Stage 3:
The crisis of the Twin is realising they are required to reject their egoic beliefs about love relationships or reject their beloved.  Being required to shed “little self” or identity-based beliefs and desires to embrace a higher expression of love is capable of leading to stubbornness and anxiety.  Fear is capable of taking hold, triggering many perceived dysfunctional emotional patterns.  In staying present with the patterns, they are capable of being witnessed and released.

Both Twins experience being simultaneously inspired and toppled by the power of the union.

Doubts creep in making one or both Twins begin to view their beloved critically or suspiciously.

Despite fears, both Twins naturally come together in cycles for bonding, confession, forgiveness and Lovemaking.  These rituals cement higher levels of consciousness into the energy fields of both Twins

The purpose of the Crisis stage:
To provide opportunities for the healing and maturing of the mental and feeling bodies

Stage 4:  The Runner Dynamic

Characteristics of Stage 4:
The human ego naturally fears annihilation in the face of the Unified Consciousness encoded inside the Twin Flame Union.  The pain physical body rises up and old human mechanisms or ego survival “bottom of the barrel” emotional and mental patterns similar to defiance, resistance, manipulation, anger, punishing and judgement arise.

One or both Twins become sensationally and mentally flooded with deep pain from what is experiences similar to lifestream/soul level rejection and abandonment.  The unbearable lifestream/soul level pain leads one or both Twins to withdraw physically and block communication in fear and futility.  One or both Twins may unsuccessfully attempt to re-create the original unified harmony.

The purpose of the Runner Dynamic:
To propel both individuals towards Source for healing and maturation of the spiritual body.

NOTE: The temptation to engage in human ego battle or withdrawal is very seductive and difficult for many to resist, which is why many Twins Flames do not ever reach Surrender, Radiance or Harmony

Remember, there is not any space for judgement in Twin Flame pairings. Each lifestream/soul learns from much walking its own path and choosing through its own choices.  One’s non-attached loving thoughts will be experienced by one’s beloved in the subconscious, keeping them strong.

Stage 5:  Surrender

Characteristics of Stage 5: 
The direction and outcome of the relationship is surrendered to Creator in full faith and trust that the union is under divine protection.  It is accepted that what is paramount and destined for the final physical harmonising will transpire in its own time. (Both Twins are required to reach Illumination in order to harmonise in the physical) The “Runner” Twin is allowed the space and freedom to choose to evolve at their own pace in their own way.  At this stage, the frequency of compassion returns and maintains itself.  The Surrendered Twin holds a heart space for their beloved while fully exploring life on the way to becoming an Illuminated human.  This may be a time of channeling Unconditional Love into art, music, writing, teaching, active service or some other creative outlet.

Purpose of the Surrender stage:
To assist each lifestream/soul to release the human ego, develop regular communication with Source and demonstrate their full trust in Source to do what is clearest and when.

Stage 6:  Self Realisation, Illumination, Radiance

Characteristics of Stage 6:

The human ego or “little self” dies and the Creator force energy takes over the physical body.  This leads to a complete spiritual awakening, arriving at one’s fully awakened divinity. This is the stage of radiating divine love rather than seeking romantic love.

At this stage, the surrendered Twin’s emotional, mental and spiritual bodies arrive at full maturity.  New creativity and healing abilities arise, which are put in service to assist others.

Purpose of the Self Realisation, Illumination, Radiance stage:

To establish an outward flow of divine love through one’s physical body and works, this vibrates at a level that uplifts humanity

Stage 7:  Harmonising

Characteristics of Stage 7:

By this stage both Twins have awakened.  They come together in the physical to assimilate their newly evolved energies, flowing into the new dynamic of their Unified Potential.  Both Twins integrate fully into the third energy of unconditional love in a way that influences others towards their own heart opening.

Purpose of the Harmonising stage:

To fulfill the intended mission of the Twin Flame Union

Adam (Yang) - Eve (Yin)

“They were not man and woman, however actually symbolic of duality within the beings of the Earth”

The Yin Yang symbolises the Twin Flames' complementary sides: eternal love spiraling into infinity. The colour of this sublime Union is blue...a spiraling blue... Sometimes, beings meet someone with the similar frequency of our Twin Flame and this brings a sensation of Oneness. The love between Twin Flames is a gate of possibility to experience Union in a multi-dimensional way. It is capable of also representing the prototype of the "sacred marriage", a reflection of the sacred union of the Divine Masculine and Feminine within the Source.

Signs that one has found one’s Twin Flame:

  • An overwhelming sense of love and attraction.
  • A sense of completion that goes beyond words.
  • A magnetism to the other stronger than anything you have ever experienced.
  • You will complement one another.
  • The ability to literally sense one another whether you are with or without your partner.
  • A sensation that you are so close you just might feel related - like a brother or a sister.
  • A complete and total breakdown of your lives as you knew them upon finding one another.
  • The power to touch the other without physical means from great distances.

Physical Appearance Has Little or Nothing to Do With a Pairing

Physical appearance does not have anything to do with a pairing. Twin Flames do not look similar. Many seem to be complete opposites such as brunette, blond, read head, blue eyes/brown eyes/green eyes, thick hair/thin hair, large boned/small boned.

The energy combined from both Twin Flames, is different from that of individuals. It is a special offering that the Twin Flames give to each other and expend in their service to humanity. On this planet, out of the darkness a pure light will emanate, illuminated by an increased number of flames. Each Twin Flame represents the conscious and harmonious relationship between Twin Flames. As the numbers of Twin Flame couples come together, there will be a multitude of flames; an abundance of light and a profusion of energy on the Planet which would act as a catalyst and assist to effectuate the expected breakthrough in consciousness for the evolution of Terra or Urantia

Same Sex Twin Flames

A Twin Flame is capable of appearing as a human of your same sex. Remember, the Twin Flame is an energetic lifestreams (soul) essence in your complementary energy pattern. It does not have or bones or even a personality. This essence is capable of being embodied in the same physical sexual incarnation that one has chosen for this lifetime.

As for same sex relationships, finding one’s Twin Flame in the same gender has been experienced by some. After all a Twin Flame is both masculine and feminine together.  This happens for the reason that there is some form of vulnerability within the lifestream (soul) from the past, or even some past-life experience. This is capable of happening if one’s own lifestream (soul) is not sovereign. It is a survival instinct. At the same time, one’s lifestream (soul) still wishes to play out the reflection of balancing the divine feminine and divine masculine aspects within and have that balance reflected from without.  Also there are times on different timelines for quickenings.

Noticed that within all gay and lesbian relationships both dominant polarities are present? One will play the role of the feminine energy whilst the other plays the role of the masculine. One’s Twin Flame is your energetic essence!

Merging with one’s own gender is merely expressing fear of the opposite gender, and that for any number of reasons. Human male lovers are still seeking the void of the feminine without experiencing the fear of the void represented by the actual human female physical gender. Human female lovers are seeking the experience of sensitivity and passion of mutual giving, not only of sensual pleasure, however the accompanying responsive support and nurturing, all without being required to tolerate the human male represented in physical form.

It is an instinctual life preservation mode and it is real and very intense. However, it still allows the exploration and balancing of these energies reflected by another in a pathway that entails the least amount of passionate risk.

As one begins to balance the energies within and come into one’s full sovereignty, the preference for one’s own gender will mellow and the desire may swiftly rise to experience relationship in its full polarity. The terror at the lifestream (soul) level that comes from allowing one’s self to be completed or unified will dissolve.

Most beings have lived many lifetimes in both human genders as they have learned to balance the primal forces of creation. Embodying a gender that is polar to one’s primary charge affords a tremendous growth opportunity.

Twin Flame Sex

What it is really similar to have “twin flames sex”? Many humans on Terra or Urantia consider sex to be one of the most wonderful experiences that they are capable of experiencing in human form. However many perceive that this act has been turned by many over thousands of years into the cause of endless pain.

There have been groups of humans that have put themselves in positions of authority to decide, define, what is sexually acceptable for others and what is not. They have chosen to decide for others, what is questionably based on their own perceived experiences, issues and deemed fears and then impose them on the rest of the human race. These might be religious organisations, sects, nationalities, races, governments, or committees, they all perceive that they recognise and have the justification, to declare an artificial boundary of what they judge as being perceived as is right and perceived as incorrect for all others. It has been proven though time that if others of a different mindset challenge those perceived biased boundaries, then they are frowned at or persecuted. The boundaries that the self-chosen few have circumscribed are often based on their own perceived fears of ignorance.

In the duality sexuality is one of the most prevailing motivators there is, not only for perceived light, however also for perceived darkness. Sexuality has often been used as a motivator to attract a potential partner into a pairing relationship, only to be rapidly redefined by one party soon after marriage, to then be followed by years of chosen discomfort, as the chosen relationship spirals downwards.

Human sexuality has been used for millennia to dominate, repress and controll other humans. It has also been used as a tool and an indirect motivator behind humans who would choose any method to achieve being powerful, rich or famous.

A tremendous sexual experience is only limited by one’s own imagination and natural time. A sexual experience in the 3rd dimensional world is capable of transferring one to an advanced state that any natural or human made drug is capable of, to the point where it is purely Divine.

As many spiritual literatures suggest, sacred sex is capable of unlocking the uppermost levels of spirituality. However one might choose to ask, what is this “sacred sex”?

That being said, now allow us to directly answer the question with our perception, what it’ is “really” similar to to have “twin flames sex”?

We believe it is the perfect alchemy of unconditional love and lust; lusts being a magic ingredient to unconditional love and not in duality to it, as many humans really believe. In a Twin Fame encounter, we perceive that one’s lust for each other comes from the pure energy of divine Love and one’s chemistry requires both to work together as one. The idea of unconditional love without lust seems actually non fulfilling!

Our perception is that, as long as sexuality is based on unconditional love rather than human love it will transcend the 3rd dimensional reality of sensation. In this 3rd dimension concept, humans accept that other humans have the power to emotionally wound them physically or mentally. If one perceives that they have been emotionally wounded physically or mentally by another human, we declare that there really is an issue somewhere, that we perceive requires more work of release. This is how we define balancing the masculine and feminine energies within each being.

The unconditional love that is shared between Twin Flames is not similar to any other love that most beings are ever capable of experiencing. Whether one knows one’s Twin Flame as human, in another dimension, or both, one will know ecstasy beyond anything in this world.

Many humans understand sexuality as showing physical conditional love to one another. Other humans understand it as a way of procreation. There are some who even understand it as physical sensations, and when these physical sensations occur they experience as this were real love.

The different understands of the concept of love are capable of being meaning many different things to different humans. The English word love is capable of referring to a variety of different sensations, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure to interpersonal attraction. In terms of interpersonal attraction, four forms of love have traditionally been distinguished, based on ancient Greek precedent: the love of kinship or familiarity (in Greek, storge), the love of friendship (philia), the love of sexual and/or romantic desire (eros), and self-emptying or divine love (agape).The different understands of the concept of love are capable of being meaning many different things to different humans however the approved union of Twin Flames is one of attaining higher consciousness.

Twin Flames are of similar vibrations. When Twin Flames come together and their love is shared tactically with one another, Kundalini fire ignites. The passion is a union of Lifestreams (Souls) and sexuality becomes a sacred tool. The Twin Flame vibrations mirror one another and the sexual union becomes so powerful it is similar to “Touching Heaven.”

Twin Flames are both divine feminine and divine masculine Lifestreams (Souls). When these energies blend together, very many levels of magnetic and spiritual harmony simultaneously occur. Electrical energy flows and mirrors between them. Universal forces of destiny bring them together. If they relinquish themselves in this spiritual marriage of the Lifestreams (Souls), they will find themselves in the Universal Flow of Divine Energy. This is when one finds themselves in many different states of higher consciousness. This higher consciousness brings into alignment all of one’s chakras, not just the accepted ones and the cosmic energy of the universe.

One will experience as if they are in simultaneous dimensions and an inner knowing fills one up completely. There is a meeting of the minds and of the Lifestreams (Souls). One will recognise the Lifestream (Soul) that is before one and in this deeply blissful sensation will encompass the Twin Flames. The sacred sexuality of this union is blessed in every possible way imaginable. One will find the universal truth by accessing sacred knowledge of these simultaneous dimensions. It is multi-orgasmic for both. Time and space do not exist when in spiritual bliss, nor does anyone reality. It is a sacred marriage of Twin Flames.

The description of this as a Sacred Marriage of Lifestreams (Souls) in a chosen path. It is not similar to the church or law marriage. Those marriages are more about paper and human love. It is about the Lifestreams (Soul’s) marriage and the Lifestreams (Souls) are capable of being heterosexual, homosexual, or multidimensional in nature.

Only the Twin Flames that are in the marriage will be capable of realising it for themselves. With the Twin Flame, experience comes all the synchronicities, the master numbers will present themselves, and one will have an inner knowing that this Twin Flame is one’s own.

The more these feminine/masculine energies are balanced within both of the Twin Flames, the more doors it opens and frees one to explore without the head games and power trips that many humans have experienced at some time in their sexual experience.

When Twin Flames come together, with both of them having worked very hard separately on balancing the masculine and feminine energies within themselves and by learning to love themselves unconditionally first, before coming together there is a wonderful union.

During normal sexual intercourse between most humans there is an expenditure of energy that leaves a human experiencing a sensation of being drained. Most human males tend to fall asleep and most human females tend to go about their routines afterward. However, the complete union between Twin Flames is unquestionably a complete connection of energy building, Kundalini fire. Deep prolonged ecstasy occurs and the human brain becomes harmonious with both left and right brain functioning to create an experience of an unclouded unlimited perception. There is equilibrium of mind, physical body, and spirit. One’s energy does not experience being drained it is an experience of being revitalised.

During sexual intercourse with a Twin Flame partner that is energetically open and of

high vibration, the act of penetration on an energetic level will activate the Kundalini of the partner. The human male penis performs as an antenna, during penetration for the Kundalini energy and the human female is activated from this penetration.  Both partners require having all of their chakras open during this time.  If there is a shutting off of the chakras, the energetic frequencies that are created and experienced during Twin Flamesex are frequencies that are not available on this planet any other way. These energies are of higher vibrational frequencies, and higher the state of consciousness.

The energetic frequencies that are created and experienced during Twin Flame sex are frequencies that are not available on this planet any other way. These energies are of higher vibrational frequencies, and higher the state of consciousness. During the Twin Flame union, one is aware of both the conscious and the unconscious. It is both masculine and feminine essence. Its self-realisation and spiritual harmony, it is a balance of lifestream (soul) and universe. This connection is indescribable in human languages however there is an inner awareness of being one with all. It is a real love of inner self, connecting with one’s mirrored Twin Flame and an experience many will begin to share as we reach the new age that is arriving. The ones that have them will come to find their Twin Flames and know what the enjoyment of this sacred union is.

Twin Flame Frequently Asked Questions/Answers

Signs that one has found their Twin Flame are capable of being many and varied. Some beings may be capable of identifying with a few of the signs listed below while others may be experiencing all of them. However, the most important thing to remember is that it is only a lifestream’s/soul's life experiences and choices that he/she makes along the way that will determine whether or not one is in a Twin Flame relationship. In the end, it is the Universe that will show one exactly what one is ready for.

Q - Where am I capable of finding my Twin Flame? 

A - Anywhere! In person, on the phone, the internet, blogs, chat rooms, dating clubs. All that is required is that one is searching.  One is also capable of finding one’s Twin Flame in the spirit world if they are not here on earth.

Q - When am I capable of meeting that special somebody?

A - When, has more to do with one’s life experiences and when one’s lifestream/soul has reached a certain point in growth that time will be presented. However, just prior to the reunion of one’s Twin Flame one may notice a very important lesson learned in one’s life.

Q - Why are Twin Flames coming together?

A - To be reunited with the other half of their

lifestream/soul which split many lifetimes before. The reason for this is to bring love into a world that is in dire requirement of healing and light. Once this is accomplished, their mission is complete.

Q - How is one capable of finding one’s Twin Flames?

A - If one has not found one’s Twin Flame, then one ought take a through look at one’s self and be ruthless. Ask: Is there anything one requires to improve? Ask: Does one give enough? Ask one’s self is there anything that one is capable of doing in a more improved way for the requirements and cares of those around one and to the world at large?

Q - When one finally does find one’s twin flame, is one’s mission complete?

A - No. however one’s search is over. In a clear fact, one’s mission is to be role modells reminding a vast majority of the world how to give love and compassion. One might be surprised at how humans respond to this.  The light that will encompass one, will attract everyone! It is very profound.

Q - I think I have found my twin flame. We love each other so much; however on the rare occasion that we argue, it is just terrible. What can I do?

A - You are required to choose to work on your karma. Arguing with your twin flame will get you nowhere. This is why you are required to heal all of your unresolved life experiences. Besides, a comment aimed perceived negatively toward your partner will only hurt yourself. Remember, the two of you are connected.


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#4 SleepParalysisIsTheKey 2014-05-30 12:59
Disclaimer notice: **WARNING DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES ATTEMP TO ENDUCE SLEEP PARALYSIS. SLEEP PARALYSIS CAN LEAD TO SUDDEN AND UNEXPLAINED DEATHS** My sincerest apologies if these words upset or frighten anyone as my intention is only to raise awareness of how dangerous sleep paralysis can be. I have experienced more than two very close merges during sleep paralysis however my twin flame is not yet as ready as I am. We came very close last night, this time she was actually pulled in to my sleep paralysis and experienced it for only the second time, we know this due to our perfectly collated accounts of what happened. I must stress to you that at no point have I attempted to enduce sleep paralysis in fact it is something I consider to suffer from. If anyone reading this has experienced something similar I would be very interested to read thier story. Thank you for reading. Peace, love and light to you all
#3 SleepParalysisIsTheKey 2014-05-30 12:57
Hi there I was wondering if the writer of this article is aware of the potential to merge entirely (mind, body and soul) whilst conscious with a twin flame during the state of sleep paralysis?

I posted the following in June 2013 yet to have a response : Physically merging with your true twin flame means to merge your conscious physical bodies, minds and souls, it is literally the coming together of two unseperable yet consciously seperated beings of love light and energy to become one. Typically when reunions occur the whole of our physical bodies will not be merged, this is because merging of our souls and minds requires the death of our conscious construct of physicality, hench the loss of our physical bodies during the event. There is however a way for us to achieve a fully conscious, physical, mind and soul merging but it is through an unstable state of consciousness known as “Sleep Paralysis”.
#2 nitin 2013-05-02 07:59
Nice one.
#1 MasterJai 2013-05-02 03:57
This topic looks quite interesting... I am looking forward to learning more..

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